The wisdom every daughter needs to know
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Hello
Niraï Melis (sociologist MSc, and a background in Marketing Management) is defined by her versatility. She has worked across sectors and roles — policy advisor, researcher, director, programme maker, chairwoman — rarely staying in one lane for long.
The thread running through it all is her gift for sensing what others can't. She began as a spiritual coach for adults, until she noticed a pattern: most adult struggles trace back to what went unseen, and unhealed, in childhood. So she turned toward children instead — becoming a Child Whisperer, and holding dozens of conversations with young children and their parents.
What children told her surprised her. The root of their struggles, again and again, wasn't something wrong with them — it was how society itself is built, and the choices it makes. They didn't feel at home in it. Niraï set out to tell their story, so the world might make more room for them — through writing, through advising organisations, through speaking, and now, through her books and courses.
Education
Niraï studied Marketing Management, and later Sociology — Urban Studies and Policy, specialising in Urban Economics — at Erasmus University Rotterdam. A traineeship with a government secondment agency followed, where she worked across various policy and advisory assignments.
Alongside this, she trained as a Reiki Master and studied Universal Human Life, Positive Thinking, Trauma Healing, and Merkaba Healing — the balance between her innate spiritual gifts and everyday life.
The story of Wisdom Courses of Life
Niraï trained as a sociologist, but her work took an unexpected turn early on. As a spiritual coach, she noticed something she couldn't ignore — that most of what adults struggled with traced back to issues in childhood. To improve lives, she start working as a Child Whisperer: someone who speaks with children directly, energetically, soul-to-soul about what's really going on in their lives.
What she heard surprised her. Again and again, children pointed not to something wrong with them or their parents choices, but to how the world around them is built — the choices society makes, the spaces that leave no room for who they really are. At the same time, she saw mothers stressed and exhausted by the same choices society makes. She felt so sorry for all the moms, especially since a lot of moms got mental and health problems because of it.
It reminded her of her own youth and family. She deeply remembers the sadness and grief of the women around her, just because they were suppressed. It has always been her dream to see the smiles of those women again. At the same time, children were telling here golden gems about life, trues and wisdom we've never learned. Some wisdom was even suppressed by the religion. When she heard the truth of the children and the stories about the Matriarchal era, she couldn't unhear it. It would change many lives of women to the better. So she started writing it down.
That's what you'll find here: sociological research, sat side by side the wisdom of children and mother. All with the aim to improve your life, women's lives, and children live's.
Niraï holds a degree in Sociology from Erasmus University Rotterdam, alongside training in trauma healing and energetic communication. But the real credential is the hundreds of hours spent listening — to children who couldn't yet find the words, and to women ready to trust their own.
This site holds what came out of that listening: books, courses, and a vision of what life looks like when it's built around what actually keeps women and children well.
Children & the Child Whisperer
What is a Child Whisperer?
A Child Whisperer communicates with children on an energetic level — soul to soul — and listens to what they share about their experiences, needs and perspectives.
Till what age can a Child Whisperer talk to childeren?
A Child Whisperer can talk with your unborn child, your newborn child, and childeren upto 99 years old. She can even speak to people who already have passed to the other side.
What can children teach us about the future?
From a Child Whisperer perspective, children can offer insights into different ways of living, learning, relating and organising society.
Can I communicate with my unborn baby?
Yes, you can. Every living being on earth has a soul to connect, even if your child is not yet born. It only takes for the soul to be present and willing to talk to your soul.
How can I better understand what my child needs?
By learning to listen not only to what children say, but also to their behaviour, emotions, needs and individual way of experiencing the world.
How do I know what the children tell you is true?
This kind of wisdom is hardly scientific based evidence. But since children tell me the same thing over and over and I recognize the patterns, it must be true. I just translate their personal stories to a much wider topic and their solutions for their problems to a vision. Talking to women and feeling the true divine feminine energy, the solutions and wishes the children talk about, is matching this true divine energy. With other words: the children guides us the way to the Matriarchal world, where the divine feminine energy can rule.